Today’s show is about sex. Though it’s not directly about addiction and recovery, sex and relationship issues are often what drive people to use drugs and alcohol.

Melanie Curtin is a sex researcher and men’s coach. She talks about the huge role sex plays in our relationships and how it can affect our recovery. She explains how to confront past trauma and unravel innate sexual shame. She also tells us about fascinating somatic therapies that free emotional blocks from deep within the body, allowing us to open up to our partners and connect in deeper ways.

Get ready to be a badass in bed!

“Your natural state is to be good in bed.”—Melanie Curtin

Melanie Curtin

Melanie is a sex researcher and men’s coach with a Master’s in Communication from Stanford University.

She is a columnist at Inc. magazine, and has been published or seen on TODAY, Huffington Post, Forbes, Business Insider, The New York Observer, and more.

She has been coaching men for over six years, and specializes in bringing a woman’s perspective to men, so they can connect and succeed with women in fun, inviting, and meaningful ways that lead to fulfilling sex and relationships.

Please Her in Bed

A step-by-step course on how to please women in bed, based on research on over 1,000 women. These women shared openly and vulnerably about their sex lives, specifically describing what the men who are best in bed do.

One-third of women in the research reported that 90%+ of men are not good in bed. The course was designed for men to understand what the 10% who are best do, and outlines the step-by-step way to do it. It also covers how to talk about sex, and make it safe for your partner to open up to you.

Women repeatedly talked about how hard it was for them to share about what they truly want, and the course outlines how to open up discussions around sex that leave both partners feeling more seen, heard, excited, turned-on, and connected.

The course is presented in 4 modules that cover:

  1. How to Talk About Sex, and the Build-Up
  2. Mouth & Hands (Oral Sex and Fingering)
  3. Intercourse
  4. Advanced Sexual Practices

Please Her In Bed Course (Use promo code SHAIR for $200 off!)


Please Her In Bed (promo code SHAIR)

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