I started using alcohol at age 15 and it felt like the perfect solution to my childhood trauma and dysfunctional home life. My values changed almost immediately, and I went from having LDS background to the other end of the spectrum. I got a DUI when I was 16 and many underage alcohol misdemeanors. I was kicked out of high school and was ashamed that I had a GED and not a high school diploma. I was pregnant at age 18 and was able to stop drinking but started again shortly after my daughter was born. I didn’t have any more legal consequences after that first DUI, mostly because of luck. My biggest consequence from drinking was that it stunted my growth as a human being.

My recovery from alcohol has really been about recovering from the reasons why I drank, which I can address now that I am not drinking. My threshold for being unhappy was fairly low, in comparison to others’ stories. This is not to undermine or deny what I went through. I had withdrawal symptoms from alcohol, shitty relationships, and no sense of self. When people in AA say, “If I drink, I will die,” I don’t entirely relate. If I drink, I may die eventually and my disease will continue to progress, but more likely, I will be miserable in my existence. I won’t achieve my purpose, be connected to a higher power, or have fulfilling relationships. I have learned that my addiction to alcohol is a symptom of trauma, and drinking was merely a coping skill.  Alcohol worked very well to numb my pain and it helped me disassociate. I didn’t even know I was disassociating until I started my recovery journey. It becomes more and more apparent that I didn’t know how to cope with my feelings or know how to be comfortable in my skin.

My personal work and successes have been on self-forgiveness and love, forgiving others, learning healthy boundaries, and being the best mother possible. I am in recovery from alcohol and co-dependency. I am learning how to feel my feelings, cope with life, and stand up for myself and my worth. I live in Idaho, and I am a single mom to 3 amazing, beautiful daughters. I am so proud of myself for breaking the intergenerational patterns in my family.

My curiosity about sobriety started about 3 years ago. I started listening to podcasts in the beginning of my recovery and found The SHAIR Podcast with Omar Pinto. I loved his voice and his energy. I have found his interviews to have a profound impact on my ability to see my addiction as an opportunity and not a dirty secret. I eventually became a member of his FB group and then joined the SRC where I have connected with so many amazing people in recovery. I feel the SRC group has kept me sober.

I can access meetings via Zoom which has been crucial to me since I am at home with my kids and haven’t found an AA group in my community where I feel connected. The connection with others in the group has saved me from loneliness and isolation. I have found a sponsor in one of these groups who was willing to complete the 12 steps with me which has been transformational!  I am almost 5 months in my recovery from alcohol and 95% of the time, I don’t even think about drinking. I am so grateful for the SRC, the SHAIR podcast, my sponsor, the step work, and online recovery.

Why do we fall into toxic relationships? How can we stop acting out on codependent behaviors? How do we know when someone isn’t right for us?

Today’s guest is Relationship Expert Elizabeth Overstreet and she’s going to give us the truth behind why we find ourselves in unhappy, destructive relationships. The big secret?

It’s you.

If you find yourself hopping from disaster to disaster or just surviving in an unhappy marriage or relationship, then it’s time to own up to it and take action.

Listen as Elizabeth teaches us how to become aware of our patterns, stop playing the victim and empower ourselves to create healthy, happy relationships with people who are good for us.

Elizabeth Overstreet

Elizabeth is a relationship coach who has been a regular guest on radio and TV, as well as featured in Thought Catalog, Your Tango, Jet Magazine, and Thrive Global. Finding the right person is one of the most important decisions in life and should be attended to with attention and care. Elizabeth’s career evolved after years of studying relationship dynamics and her personal experience. Her philosophy is that relationships take focused effort and self-awareness. In her coaching practice, Elizabeth helps her clients prepare for, find, and nurture healthy relationships. She is also the author of Love You and He Will Too: The Smart Woman’s Roadmap for Happy, Healthy Relationships.

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